Wondering what to wear to each event?  Please review the attire guide below for more information.

Thursday, May 21, 2026

Event

Girl Friend

Boy Friend/Escort

National Welcome Reception:
Struttin' the Jersey Boardwalk

Boardwalk Chic, Sundresses, Shorts, Sandals, and/or represent your favorite BEACH Resort Wear

Shorts, Sandals, and/or represent your favorite BEACH Resort Wear

Friday, May 22, 2026

Event

Girl Friend

Boy Friend/Escort

Golf Outing

N/A

Collared-shirt, pants or shorts (shorts must
be at least mid-thigh in length and cannot be denim).

Boy Friend Optional Activities

N/A

Casual athletic wear (Pickleball)
Casual wear (Gun range and Museum)

New Jersey Chapter National Friday Night Reception:  A Western Fling with Boots & Bling     

Guests are encouraged to dress in boots and bling, with cowboy hats, denim, and shimmering accents, while keeping comfort in mind for the desert heat.                                            

Guests are encouraged to dress in boots and bling, with cowboy hats, denim, and shimmering accents, while keeping comfort in mind for the desert heat.

Saturday, May 23, 2026

Event

Girl Friend

Boy Friend/Escort

Girl Friends’ Luncheon: Blossoms, Baubles, and Bags: From the Boardwalk to the Badlands

Wear chic all white fashion adorned with bold gemstone jewelry that glitters in the Scottsdale sun, topped off by shoes of any color and your unique showstopper handbag!

N/A

Boy Friends' Luncheon:  My Brotha's Keeper

N/A

HBCU gear, fraternity letters, or your favorite pro/college team. Show your pride and let your shirt do some of the talking.

Black Tie Gala:  The Garden State Blooms in the Desert: MET Gala Style

Formal, over-the-top, couture-inspired attire with striking Met Gala–inspired design elements, dramatic silhouettes, luxurious textures, bold embellishments, and unapologetic personal expression. 
 NO Florals Please

Formal, over-the-top, couture-inspired attire with striking Met Gala–inspired design elements, luxurious textures, bold embellishments, and unapologetic personal expression.  NO Florals Please

Sunday, May 24, 2026

Event

Girl Friend

Boy Friend/Escort

Farewell Brunch:
Happy Trails Until We meet Again

Comfy Travel Clothes                                        

Comfy Travel Clothes